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Long Distance Relationships.  

Wednesday, January 09, 2008

School's closed today. As usual, I stayed home. So, yeah, mental diarrhea everyone.


LDR

I'm not a fan of Long Distance Relationships, when I turned 12, I already knew, and sure, it will never work, not just for me, but for anybody. Though Papà has always told me never to say never, he also told me that our genes don't react well with long distance relationships.

When I moved back home, I was 17-18, I saw someone close to me end her relationship with a man she's been with for 7 long years and still loved, to date someone she's falling in love with (listen to Usher's U make me wanna). I'm not sure if their relationship ended because she moved here and he stayed there, I think I'll never know, all I know is that it did not end because they're falling out of love, when they say love's not enough, you have no other choice but to believe them. But, still, I've always thought (and I have a feeling that I still do) that if I find my match, and he happens to be on the other end of the world, I'll give long distance relationship a try. Yes, if giving it a try is equal to still having him in my life, I definitely will.

steph-pao
Pao and Phane, the two champorados!
(Pao, pahiram ako ah? Hehehe.)


Now, these two people, long time friend Stephanie and her fiancé Paolo, (talagang i-broadcast ba daw? Hehehe!) are slowly changing my credo regarding long distance relationships, they're starting to make me have faith in it. But I still don't think it's for me. Communication is not really the problem, I mean, even if there's the risk of people thinking that I actually have a relationship with my mobile phone or my laptop, communication won't be the problem. The thing is, I have carnal needs that I want and need to satisfy. I can be very a little exigent when it comes to romantic relationships. I need hugs. I need kisses. I need to hold hands. I need to cuddle. I need a shoulder where I can rest my head. I need a face to stare at, that would make me feel I'm the luckiest person in the world. I need whispers. I need "I love you", "Good Morning", "Good Night", "Take care", "I miss you", etc. I need tickles. I need someone to do cheesy things for and with. When I feel like surprising him with a breakfast in bed, I need to know that I can go to a bar near his place to buy breakfast, reheat everything in his kitchen and wake him tenderly, in less than 2 hours. I need someone whose smile would make my heart skip a beat, and I need to see that smile in the flesh, at least thrice a week. I need someone whose stare would melt me. I need the warmth. I need someone who needs me, as much as I need him.

Most of the people I know would not believe any of the carnal needs I wrote about, simply because rare are the moments that I've been showy, in front of other people (which I think is a good thing), and they know that I don't like spending every single second of my day with a boyfriend, I think, it'll ruin the relationship. A couple should spend all the time they can together, but that doesn't mean every single second of every single day. Mag-kakasawaan lang kayo, but then again, it's probably just me.


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